Thursday, March 15, 2012

Little Black Cloud

I think all nurses must go through time periods like this. Or at least I really hope my peers do because otherwise I feel like I should just go out and buy a bunch of black scrubs and be called the death nurse. It's not that I am purposefully or intentionally killing my patients but more the idea that I am a magnet for death.
Sometimes when I allow myself the time to think about it, I just want to curl up and cry... and cry... and cry some more!
For some patients death is expected and most often a blessing. Still sad, particularly with their family for you know they are the ones hurting with nothing but time to heal their sorrows.
For others, it's shocking! It's not right and it shouldn't be! And I can't help but sway between believing in a higher power and things happen for a reason to there being no higher power because if there truly was one, deaths like these wouldn't occur.
Recently I was working a shift in my own little death corner of the unit. One elderly patient was made comfort care so I extubated him and stopped all the medications I was infusing to keep him alive. I made sure he was comfortable and he looked incredibly peaceful while he waited out his journey here on earth.
My other patient not so much.... A twenty six year old, newly engaged with the whole world to look forward to. He came to us because of a severe headache which turned out to be so much more. And so much we couldn't save him from.
His mom spoke to me asking "I bet you get numb to all this?" ... I wanted to yell "Oh hell no!" Instead I stated "we don't ever get numb! We approach it a little differently because of our knowledge of what is going on but never numb. We feel too much empathy and sorrow towards the family for us to go numb and honestly I don't think a nurse would be a very good nurse if we couldn't relate to these life changing events."
I rarely cry at work... most of the time I cry on my way home as I am sorting out my own feelings towards a day's events but every now and then things hit you and you can't help but cry at work. You can't help but be slammed with the reality, or the big picture.
Anyways, a friend just wrote a blog post in regards to cherishing life. A dear friend of hers (Susan) passed away suddenly, leaving a beautiful family behind. Susan apparently had a quote that she liked.... it sums life up beautifully ..."For those who fight for it, life has a flavor the sheltered will never know." - Sucker Punch
And as my friend stated in her blog "Fight for it!" Love it and be grateful for it! You just never know....

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Car Shopping

Clive - Will you and Daddy buy a car for me?
Me - You mean when you get old enough to drive one?
Audrey - No! You have to do that on your own when you get older.
Clive - But I don't know where a car shop is!
Audrey - You will when you get old enough.

Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Babies

E - "Clive you can call Erica your mom, or mommy, or mama."
Clive - "I like to call her Erica. Erica is a mom."
E - "That's right. She is your mom."
Audrey - "Yeah. She grew you in her belly."
E - "That is why she earned the name Mom."
Clive - "Daddy helped too!"
E - "Yes he did. That is why you can call him Daddy."
Clive - "And you helped too!"
E - "Ah... No. Nope. I did not help with that one."

Friday, January 13, 2012

I love being organized!

Ok so I'll be the first to admit that I am truly OCD when it comes to things being organized! And while we are on confessions.... I LOVE LOVE LOVE the Container Store! It is like going to heaven. AND what is great is the fact that if I buy something and take it home to organize .... that wonderful feeling lasts and I get to enjoy it any time I open a cupboard or drawer that was organized. I recently organized my two bottom kitchen cupboards and my bathroom drawers! I am so excited I even took pictures to share. I think Adam is a little terrified.






Clive's Rock-a-bye baby

"Wwwwock a bye baby. Wock a bye baby. Wock a bye baby. The tree breaks." (short pause)  "Wwwwwock a bye baby. Wock a bye baby."

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Sleep overs



My sister shared this on her blog and I just had to repost... 


Friday, November 4, 2011

Home

I love my home! What I love most about my home is the people who live here. We just have so much love and support circulating. It's hard not to feel it whenever I walk in the door.